

Learning to control my own desire changed everything⠀There was a time I’d go along with things.Smile when I didn’t want to. Say yes just because it was easier. It felt normal — until it didn’t. Now I stop. Check in. And if something doesn’t feel right — I walk away.⠀My desire isn’t a reaction. It’s a decision.A language only I speak fluently. And here’s the thing — that kind of control isn’t cold. It’s electric.⠀Because real closeness only starts where boundaries are respected 💭